The Red-Headed Huzzy

March 19, 2012  •  8 Comments

I have to wonder if that's even how you spell Huzzy. It's definitely how you pronounce it!

Well, today I have spent reflecting. Depending upon your age, you may be familiar with the name Rue McClanahan.

If you grew up in Ardmore when I did, you may also know that she is the red-headed actress from the show Golden Girls.

Well, I have always been sort of fascinated with her. Love the red hair, the sass, the role she played on Golden Girls, the fact she was a hometown gal. She passed not long ago. And I  have a story to share with you. She grew up in the house I currently live in. Her father was a home-builder. Built many of the homes in and around Ardmore. And my house (formerly where she grew up), is a fascinating older home. It winds around in quite the artistic fashion.

When we first bought this home, a dear friend of mine was helping us move in....my children were very small. And as we would carry boxes in, my friend would talk to me in first person, as if he were the house, saying things like, "I'm so excited! Little kids!! That means birthday parties! And crayons! And playing in the yard!!"  He was pointing out (in his quirky way), that it had been a really long time since kids had lived here! Rue and her sister grew up here (from around middle school age on), as did Rue's son for much of his life, but since then, there had only been one other family, and they didn't have any children at home. So, when we moved in, my children may have been the very first small children to have lived here.

A few days later, as we began to settle into our new home, I plugged in a television for my children. We didn't have the cable turned on yet, so I hooked up the VCR and just pushed play. And, I almost fell over from what I heard: Rue McClanahan's voice, from the movie Annabelle's Wish, saying something like, "It's been a long time since we've had a young'un here in the barnyard!"   in her ever-so-syrupy southern fashion! I had no idea that movie was in the VCR, nor did I have ANY idea she even did one of the voices in that movie (I hadn't watched it). It was, still to this day, one of the strangest things that I have evr witnessed!

Not long ago, a couple of years or so, Rue wrote a book. It's called "My First Five Husbands (and the ones that got away)" One of my friends called me the day it came out and told me, "You have to go get the book! It talks about your house all through it!" And she started reading excerpts to me. I couldn't believe it! It was filled with interesting tidbits, like "where daddy used to hide his moonshine" (hidey-hole still there, by the way). When her son was born, her water broke standing at my kitchen counter. Photos from one of her weddings, when the reception was held in my dining room....those types of things. Made me love my old house even more.

The entire upstairs floor is bird's eye maple. And three of the four walls upstairs are almost solid windows. Sort of a photographer's dream. I've never really desired to do indoor work, but the more I tinker upstairs....well, let's just say I'd be out of my mind not to utilize the space. So, as the days pass, I will be posting photos of the progress upstairs, as we turn that space into something surprising, with soft light and bird's eye maple floors. Something that would have made Rue's father proud..... to see the home he 'created' for his family being loved so much by us, and the spin on his artistry in home-building used in a different artform. 

I had the chance to meet her before she passed. We even almost made a real estate deal. She considered buying this house from me. At the time, it felt like a good idea, but now I'm so glad I  still own it. If I had sold to her, who knows who would live here now that she's gone. And, I just feel like this house is supposed to be inhabited by a red-headed huzzy! ;)   .........an artist, trying to make her way!

About a year ago, I went to a garage sale a street over and there in the driveway sat this pastel chalk drawing of Rue's face, framed. The kind like people used to have done. I was like, "uhhhh, how much for this?" and the lady began telling me that she bought a street over at an estate sale, from the McClanahan estate. She even told me what wall it used to hang on. So I bought it and brought it back home. And hung her in the hall where she belongs :)

okay, so a friend just asked me if I know what the word hussie means, after she read my blog! hahaha! I DO know. I guess I should take into consideration that many peoople who will read this don't know me, therefore, won't understand my humor.........soo, disclaimer (I'm not really a hussie, in case you were worried)  ;)     Maybe I should have called us both "Golden Girls" instead.


Comments

Bonnie Marr(non-registered)
Rue and a close group of girlfriends started the first girl's sorority in Ardmore. The group all excelled in their chosen careers, becoming authors, university chairs, etc., and professionals - quite a number of accomplishments in their day. Every few years they rented a cabin at Lake Murray Lodge for a weekend of just the girls.
Debbie White(non-registered)
Golden Girls has always been one of my favorite shows. And now that I am 60, I think I need to go back and watch them again to remind myself how to keep my sassyness in my golden years. Love this story about your house.
Cathy McCarty Helton(non-registered)
Lori

I love it! Rue McClanahan has always been one of my favorite actresses! I will immediately go out and find that book. I know it is a must read! I love you dearly you feel like you have been in my life forever. Really, you have because my life just began again when I met you. I know I know! I am making you cry again! COL! God Blessed the day he sent you to me! You are truly my guardian Angel!
Strawberry Blonde Photography
Thanks, Boatmans. Love you guys, too! Been working hard on that upstairs. Those floors are just too gorgeoues to waste. Every time I'm up there, I remember Luke telling me, when we first moved in, "You know what kind of wood that is?" referring to my floors. I didn't know, I just knew it was beautiful. So, he started eductaing me on bird's eye maple. He said that bird's eye maple is typically saved for small pieces, like a chair or even a pool stick, because it's so exquisite. So, you can imagine how much Mr. McClanahan must have loved it in order to pay to do his entire upstairs in it.
Sherry(non-registered)
Love Love the blog!!! It brought a tear to my eye. Ali and Shannon sat and listened to me reading the entire blog and enjoyed it as well. Ali said you have a unique mind as well as a unique hair color and she loves your blogs!!!! We love you!!!!
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I think the question I am most often asked is in regards to the name of my business...When I was a young girl, kids always teased me about the color of my hair, which has always been some shade of red. Both of my parents were brunette. And there was really no sign of red hair anywhere in my family. Then....my brother was born...three years younger than me.....again, red hair. I still wasn't fond of my hair color, but at least now I had a crony. I remember many times adults telling me how beautiful my hair was....especially older gentlemen, for some reason, to which I'd smile and politely thank them, only to turn my back and roll my eyes. I was far from convinced.
As I grew into my adolescent years, the only thing I was certain about was that I looked much better with mascara than without.
Over the years, I have had a wave of different experiences directly related to the color of my hair. It has only been in the last few years that I have really grown to love it::::for several reasons:
For it's amazing properties as a conversation piece:
It is easily a topic, especially considering that fact that both my parents are brunettes.
For its descriptive properties: It has always made me easy to describe.
"You know.....that red-headed girl!"
No need to be tall or short....or fat or skinny...red-headed was usually enough....which leads me to my final reason:
For its uniqueness....
did you know that of ALL the minority categories a person can fall into...including everything from skin color to left-handedness....that redheads are the most 'minor' of all minorities..only somewhere between 1-2% of the world population is redheaded....most every famous redhead you can name, including, but not limited to, Lucille Ball, Julia Roberts and Debra Messing have dyed their hair red.

It is in fact this love of my once-dreaded hair color that gives me the occasional opportunity to tell a beautiful child in the grocery line how gorgeous their hair
is...many times a curly-locks in a flaming shade of scarlet....
It is so fun to watch their eyes widen as if to figure out whether I'm telling them the truth or not. It is then that I touch my own hair and announce that, It is, indeed, the best color of hair to have!....
It is through my own eyes, as an adult, that I can look back at my own childhood and realize how beautiful my hair color was.
It is that same keen eye for seeing the most beautiful parts of a person, sometimes the parts that that person never gets the chance to see honestly in the mirror. Because it's in a quirky smile....or a way they hold their mouth, maybe one eyebrow slightly more arched than the other when they grin, that all their friends and family know and love....
Many times it takes a person a few times of looking back through their pictures before they will agree with their family on which photos are the best, and that's because of exactly what I just said......what other people see in you that makes you unique and beautiful and who you are.....the things that are usually only reflected back for us to enjoy when looking at a photograph.
Some of my favorite experiences include phone calls from someone's grandma telling me how the recent photos I took of their grandson look EXACTLY like him. You might think that's odd, considering the fact that a photograph SHOULD look exactly like the subject, but, to me, the 'art' part of photography ends with phone calls like these. A photograph is always a likeness.....but when you're able to capture a little piece of someone's spirit and put it on paper for them, that's amazing!
And, that's why I chose the name "Strawberry Blonde Photography"

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